All of my children are educators of one sort or another. My oldest daughter is a middle-school administrator; my younger daughter is a high school counselor; my son (and his wife, too) are tenured university professors.
I was just a high school classroom teacher, so they've all moved ahead of me - but in the same field. I think that says something.
My daughters are planning a dinner for Sunday. They are both here in SA. I just visited my son a few weeks ago, and his family plans to come here for Memorial Day.
I like being a mother. I liked it while I was actively mothering, and I like it now that they are all on their own. Even when there was an estrangement between my daughters and me, I never let go of feeling like a mother.
I was a teacher; I was a wife; I am a writer, but my identity is most strongly tied to being a mother.
Thanks, Joe. I am looking forward to Sunday.
Ann