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alj Five Star Member
Number of posts : 9633 Registration date : 2008-12-05 Age : 80 Location : San Antonio
| Subject: Letter to Lynn Sat Mar 28, 2009 6:17 am | |
| I've been going through some old files this morning, and came across this. I wrote it for my oldest daughter when she finished high school and left for college:
Letter to Lynn
They say old habits die hard and mothering you is one of the
oldest habits
I've got.
Not that I've ever done a whole lot of mothering ...a little listening some saws of sage advice (not too many I hope)
I taught you to throw a good tantrum (You learned well) passed on to you my love of books and ideas (occasionally strange ideas)
Most of all I tried to sit back and let you be you (occasionally I forgot).
I suppose what I did (or didn't do) couldn't have been too wrong because I like you a lot, And I think I'm going to miss having you around, when the dishes are dirty or the living room needs vacuuming or I'm too tired to cook, but, also when I read a good book or hear a new idea and want to share it with someone who can hear and see what I see.
But mostly I'm going to miss you because you still have so much to teach me.
Love, Mom
Ann Levingston Joiner 1985 |
| | | zadaconnaway Five Star Member
Number of posts : 4017 Registration date : 2008-01-16 Age : 76 Location : Washington, USA
| Subject: Re: Letter to Lynn Mon Mar 30, 2009 6:19 am | |
| That is good, Ann. And I think it is full of any mother's feelings as the nest becomes empty. Of course, there are those mothers who are eager to be out from under their 'monsters', but I would guess there aren't too many of those. |
| | | Carol Troestler Five Star Member
Number of posts : 3827 Registration date : 2008-06-07 Age : 86 Location : Wisconsin
| Subject: Re: Letter to Lynn Mon Mar 30, 2009 6:31 am | |
| That was beautiful, Ann. I sure get tied up in knots about those things. For a while I couldn't figure out my sadness when my children were grown and on their own when that was what was supposed to happen. Love, Carol |
| | | alj Five Star Member
Number of posts : 9633 Registration date : 2008-12-05 Age : 80 Location : San Antonio
| Subject: Re: Letter to Lynn Mon Mar 30, 2009 7:28 am | |
| I had a dream around the same time. It was one of those mixed-up dreams. The house was a combination of several houses we had lived in. One item I particularly remember was the den rug from the house we lived in when Lynn was born. There was this tiny baby bird sitting on it, and I had this tremendous fear that it was so small that someone culd walk through and crush it without even knowing it was there. It had me so shook that I told my kids still at home about it the next day. As soon as Susan said, with a little exasperation, "Mom, your baby bird just left it's nest," I got the dream. I told the story to a friend who was our school counselor. Her comment was, "Why do you think we call it the "empty nest syndrome." Ann |
| | | Carol Troestler Five Star Member
Number of posts : 3827 Registration date : 2008-06-07 Age : 86 Location : Wisconsin
| Subject: Re: Letter to Lynn Mon Mar 30, 2009 7:39 am | |
| And now I am dealing with children whose children are leaving the nest and watching as they struggle with the same issues. It isn't the same for a grandma, though. Grandchildren just seem to still be there the same as ever. I just don't have to baby-sit with them anymore. But one grandson who is 21 kept coming over to "hang out with us" during his break from the university. We have a serious Scrabble competition going on and he keeps trying to win, but we play every day and are really good, so it is quite a challenge and he'll keep coming until he wins, so we've got to keep improving!
Carol |
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